I think spiteful and vindictive may be a tad strong...if he took Flacco's comments a certain way, then I can't knock him for wanting to get a retort in there.
My issue is, Ray seems to think there are two ways of doing things: his way, and the wrong way.
Maybe if every other teammate Joe has ever had didn't have his back, or would have said something similar to what Ray did, this would be a non-issue.
No love lost for Ray, I have always said he has a ridiculous ego, and too many people have no clue what leadership is, when they mistake squirrel dances for leadership. Ray is a legend, love him to death. But when you're wrong, you're wrong...