There is a difference and a big difference but that doesn't mean a 20 or 21 year old Joe Mixon can't look at that situation and say man, I wish I could have handle that situations better by walking away . The same can be said about Amelia Molitor who may have been a teenager as well at the time but instead saying to her self that even though her bones in her facing being broken was a painful experience, embarrassing experience and more it wasn't the right thing to put hands on Joe Mixon.