I'm a avid Ravens fan and just love football in general, but as a father I will no longer bring my son to games. I used to go to 3-4 games a year and when my son was old enough I couldn't wait to bring him too. It's interesting what happens when you go to a game as a responsible parent opposed to as a fan. I had different filters going with my son and I noticed a lot while at the game in the role of father. First the crowds getting in were aggressive and we had several men and women push my son aside to gain a better place in line going into the stadium. I can deal with that, I'm 6'6" and 260lbs I kept him in front of me after that and was able to shield him from the crowd. Once we got into the stadium it was easier to move around with him and we made our way to the seats. The next issue that I experienced was that of language. The foul language that I had clearly always just ignored was really bad, and even when people sitting around us asked others to please watch their language they were told what they could do to themselves. Last was just an overall drunkenness that was everywhere. As I looked around with my dad filters on I couldn't help but wonder if half these fans would even remember the game they came to see.
This rowdy drunken behavior that has become a part of football is ridiculous. This is supposed to be entertainment. People need to sober up, relax and enjoy the game. My heart goes out to Joseph Bauer and his family, and I have to wonder if he or his family like me will ever go again. The best seat in the house is on my couch.
